Sunday, January 10, 2010

Children of the Night- RESPONSE

When reading this, of-course I was in horror of Carissa’s terrible life story, but I was also delighted. Very often when I read news stories online they talk very little of actual people going through prostitution, instead they speak of harsh statistics and startling facts. Yes, these make you open you eyes and say “wow! really?! I didn’t know that!”, but personally I find it much more moving when you hear right from the source. I understand that one does not have to see to believe, but after hearing stories such as this, it really sets in about what it truly go on around the world and how we have no other choice than to fix it.
My favorite part of the news story from USA Today was when Carissa’s mother explains why she left her daughter. At first it sounded like her mom just threw her out of the house. Yet as it was explained more, Carissa’s mother just wanted the best for her daughter and she thought that she was making the strongest decision.
I can’t wait to read more stories such as this and I hope others do the same.

Children of the Night- NOTES


>in Fresno a women, Carissa Phelps, remembers standing on the chilly street sides ‘eyeing costumers’ as she sees girls do to this day on the same streets
    + Carissa’s story is quite similar to others; while wondering around she found     herself starving. A man was quick to notice this and consequently bought her a     hotdog and a pepsi and brought her into her living hell
    +”it was the beginning of a like she never though she’s survive”
    +now she is 31 and a graduate of a law and business school
    +she is currently starring in her own documentary about her life of prostitution     growing up
    + Carissa has made it her life goal to mentor girls and boys who have gone     through similar horrors as she and to create a safer neighborhood
        ~one of the places she is currently volunteering is at a series of non-profit         houses that house and counsel children who wish to get off the street
            *this place is called “Children of the Night”
            *the founder of “Children of the Night” said that children being             forced into prostitution is “America’s dirty little secret”
    + Carissa says that although it may not seem like a big deal she hopes that one     day the world will call children forced into prostitution ‘prostituted children’ rather     than ‘child prostitutes’, this is because saying ‘child prostitutes’ places the blame     on the innocent child

How Carissa’s sex story began:

>the horror began when Carissa’s mother dropped her off at a Fresco Juvenile Hall, about 70 miles from her home
    + Carissa states that at this time ‘her life was a blur’
    +all she truly remembers is feeling hopeless
    +when asked why her mother chose to do this she said “I was desperate for her     to be somewhere safe and not to run away from me anymore”
    + Carissa recalls having a criminal record and being rebellious as a child, a     product of a dysfunctional family
    +what Carissa mother didn’t realize was the group home she left her daughter at     was only for children who had severally broken the law, thus they brought her to     a group home. Here she hated it and instantly ran away
        ~the pattern of being brought into group homes and then running away         continued for years, until she eventually made the street her home
>at 13 Carissa stole a car and was thus placed in a juvenile facility
    +here she met a counselor who she began to realize truly cared about her. from     this she learned that she could trust men. the counselor encouraged her to go to     school, and she did!
> Carissa dreams for her community include:
    +organizing community leaders
    +buying and then converting abandoned buildings
    +fundraising
    +talking to community officials and neighbors
    +and much, MUCH more
   
>"I shine a light on the problem. If that's all that I do, it's worth it."
But is she ever too haunted by the past to move forward? "Only when I'm not working on and trying to fix it," she says. "I want to somehow change the situation that I came from so that if there was another Carissa following 30 years behind me, something different would happen for them."

>is has been estimated that around 100,00 to 300,000 children in the USA have willingly turned to prostitution
    +this number is much higher then most realize